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Questions tagged [siblings]

For questions about interactions with siblings. This includes both biological and step-siblings and any adopted siblings.

By definition, siblings have one or both parents in common with you; a brother or sister. You may have lived with them in your childhood, share phone numbers and know personal details of your lives and enjoy shared activities.

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Which pitfalls should I watch out for when meeting my half-brother who hasn't been aware of my existence for 25 years?

I've been adopted at early age and have no recollection of my biological parents. My adoptive parents have told me at a young age that I was adopted. Because this fact became integrated into my life so early on, it was a very normal subject for me…
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How to befriend someone who doesn't like to talk?

Background: I’m a 22-year-old woman, my brother is a 25-year-old man. We were close growing up, but around high school we drifted apart. As of now I wouldn’t say there’s much friendship between us at all—though to be clear, there is also no…
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How can I convince my brother to take up programming?

I know that this section of StackExchange isn't related to programming, but this is the closest part of SE I could think to post this to. Anyway, on to the topic.. I have a little brother (19, I am 23.). Both of us are interested in technology (More…
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Is it possible for my friend to resume communication with his unofficial sister without earning her husband's mistrust?

Note: this question may have a strong Indian context, but I am looking for inputs from members all over the world. Eight years ago a close friend of mine, aged 30 at the time, met an 18-year-old girl who later became his sister. This is India,…
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How to talk to my brother about a shared interest in pornographic furry material?

My brother and I are both 24, male, and twins (though we are fraternal and as physically different as possible). We have a healthy sibling relationship with many shared interests (video games, book series, TV series etc.). When I was at his house, I…
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How to handle a younger sibling being verbally bullied, with sometimes racist remarks, at school?

My younger sister tells me she's having trouble at her new middle school; one of these is that a boy, who tends to be the class clown and troublemaker, makes fun of her underbite. I told her to notify her teacher about these insults and to…
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How to tactfully ‘pull up’ sibling for neglecting parent?

My sister has had a lot on her plate recently and is a good person but can be lazy or a bit ignorant sometimes. Our mother is ill. Nothing deeply serious. But still ill. I informed my sister of this a few days ago and my mother mentioned to me today…
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Mediating Between a Parent with High Expectations and a Defensive Sibling

I have a father with high expectations who, I believe, genuinely wants my brother and me to succeed in life. He's a traditional man, and a bit conservative (firmly believing in the "Good ol' days . . ."). The safest bet for success, in my country,…
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Confronting my girlfriend's sister about trying to cuddle with us

When visiting my girlfriend's family, my girlfriend and I will usually wind up on a couch with the typical light-cuddling of a couple in a room with other people--legs across the other's lap, leaning on each other, arms around shoulders, etc. Thing…
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How to deal with sibling who has had a grudge against me for 6+ months over a minor issue?

I have a younger brother who is 19. We don’t have anything in common. I’m a quiet person and don’t like to talk about irrelevant things. My brother doesn’t understand that I’m different, he thinks I am a cold, emotionless person. His main way of…
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How can I tell my brother to stop giving me condoms for my birthday?

Every year since I turned 18, my older brother has given me a 3-pack of condoms for my birthday with a note that says, "Maybe this year, loser." The first time it happened, I just kind of laughed it off. But I just turned 22 this year, and he is…
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How to properly tell others that forgetting something doesn't mean I don't care about them?

I am taking postgraduate education and also have a very stressful job and I'm in a serious relationship. Getting these things together take a lot of my time and mind. When I'm around people not from my university or work, I'm so lost in thoughts…
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How to set boundaries to a younger sister who wants to live in my house?

Some quick background. I am the second of five children in my family. I live with my older sister in a city located at 88 miles from our hometown. I'm 27 years old and my sister is 29. Meanwhile the rest of my family live in my hometown. The…
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How to repair my relationship with my sister?

My sister and I were best friends growing up. In the past couple of years, she has met, dated, and married a guy with mental health problems that affect their day to day life. My sister didn't know the extent of his problems until after they were…
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How to Deal With Asking Out A Friend's Sister

I've been friends with the oldest brother, Gary, since middle school. His younger brother Billy also integrated into our group of friends around high school and Billy, Gary, and I frequently played video games together online during this time. Near…
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